Ms. Fix-it….

When you feel indifferent about something….hush and listen. So many times I’ve rush to do things. I’m a reactive person; my purpose in life is to help, protect and solve everyone else’s problems. Sometimes I have to stop, take a breath and put myself on pause. When situations arise for others, perhaps they don’t need or want for me to be “Ms. Fix-it Lady”. I’ve always been taught that you should always be a beacon to everyone. I’ve even heard others say “When you give from lack or what you don’t really have, that’s love”.

What???? That’s not love!!! Have you heard the saying “Put your mask on first before assisting your child”?! Think about it, to be in a good place to help someone else, you have to first have good footing yourself.  If you don’t, you both could come crashing down! The order: Yourself, Family, then Others! Remember your own health, wellness and security helps everyone else too. How, you ask?—-If you’re good, then you won’t be a burden to others.  Pick a side…..Do you want to be the one with the ability to help others, or would you rather be the one dependent on others?